Thursday, August 13, 2009
Very Sad News
It is very difficult to write this and we don't even know what to say. We were called to go to the orphanage early today for our bonding time. When we arrived our in country coordinator was there with 2 social workers. They had been talking to Galina for over an hour. Galina has refused to become part of our family. We did have the opportunity to talk to Galina and Tanya. Galina was very definite in her decision. She wouldn't even make eye contact with us. Tanya said that if Galina wasn't going she was afraid to go and seemed relieved. Our hearts are broken and we are wondering God's plan in all of this. Please pray for our family.
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I'm so sorry to hear this news. Are you looking at any kind of a timeframe for the girls to change their minds? Will you continue with visitations in the hopes that they will feel differently?
Remind me of their ages again: I believe Tanya is 15, but I can't remember how old Galina is.
No, it is done. Galina(13) has gone back to her orphanage and Tanya(16) will be out of the orphanage.
Kris & Mark,
Our hearts are breaking with yours over this. We do not understand God's ways sometimes because they are not our ways.
Please know that you've done everything you could to reunite with Galina. Her decision is shocking and also frustrating because as a young teenager, she doesn't realize the HUGE opportunities she is missing out on by not joining your lovely family.
We are here for you. We are praying for you and that God (once again) would make it clear to you what your next steps should be.
Your friends in Christ,
MaryAnn, Greg, Sierra & Megan
Oh Mark and Kris,
I am so, so, so very sorry. My heart is just breaking for you. I don't even know what to say. I wish I could just wrap my arms around you and support you right this second.
I have been reading and updating every single day and commenting too. You have had so many people asking, praying and loving you from here that it has been amazing. I don't know what God has in store for you at this time. It is so frustrating to not know His plan!
I'm sure the social workers are wanting you to take other children. Now you are at the point we discussed before you left. Lots of thinking and praying to do.
Please know that I am here for you and that I am only a phone call away, even if it is just to cry together.
we have been checking on you guys multiple times daily and now we are just stunned. There are no words. We had been praying freqently for Galina over the years and were so excited to hear your news months ago. You have listened to God and obeyed to go and get them. Now that same big God will give you comfort and encouragement during these difficult days. So sorry. love the decker
I am so sorry to hear this devestating news. My heart goes out to you guys for all the love and energy you've poured into this process and these two girls. Surely there is a plan and a reason. I can only pray for strength for you guys to work through this, and that the God's reasons and plans are made clear.
Oh I am so sorry. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
I have been wanting to post a comment for a few days saying how much I hoped Galina would warm up to you guys and change her mind for good. I just didn't want to jinx it.....
At times like this, it is so hard not to question, why?? But all will be shown in His timing.
May you and your family be wrapped in a big hug of prayer.
I sorry and I will keep you and the girls in my prayers.
I simply don't have the perfect words to sooth your broken hearts. I'm so sorry.
I am so, so sorry. This sucks. Mabey you were called over there for Galina but are meant to find another child. I know that's hard to think of, but this journey was made for a reason. Like you always say, when one door closes another opens. I know your heartbroken, but don't close yourself off. There might be a bigger picture once again. God sent you there for a reason. Obviously in wasn't Galina.
Love you,
Susie
Mark & Kris
We are heart broken for you and for the girls. I'm sad that they have no idea what they are giving up ~ loving parents and family. I want to be with you both to hug you and cry together. I'm soooo sorry. I will pray for God's peace that passes all understanding. Can't wait to talk with you in person. We are here for you.
Love to you, Jeanne K
I have a message for you from Julie F.
"Keep your eyes focused on Jesus. You're walking on water."
All our love,
Amber and Julie
Mark and Kris,
I don't know what to say except that we love you and are praying for you and crying with you. May you feel the arms of Jesus wrap around you.
We are so sorry.
Kelli
I am heartbroken to hear your news.
We have following your journey and were so looking forward to reuniting Galina with Luba. It is so unfair to expect a 13 year to make a lifelong decision. If she could only see the life Luba has now and all the opportunities that are in front of her. Teenagers can only see today and not the future. We will continue to pray for yet another miracle. If there is anything we can do, please let us know
We have been following your story and praying for you and the girls. We are so sad for everyone. Know that we continue to keep you all in our thoughts.
Karen, Glenn, and Max (Ust, 2008)
Hi Mark and Kris. I am reading and Praying. Dennis
My thoughts and prayers have been with all of you ever since...many years ago. I am so sad and hurt for you and our family. God has a plan and what we don't know we just have to trust as hard as it is right now. Let go and let God...two foot steps in the sand right now as you both are being carried. I love you!
uggh. what a kick in the gut. I am hurting with you guys and angry, sad and confused all at the same time. please know that Lynn and I are praying that God will show you how to process this. Draw together you two don't let the enemy divide. I love you both. Mike. If you are reading this it means Annah has helped us conquer the technology.
I am so sorry to hear, I know that you guys have wanted this for so long, it is so sad that children at their age can make this life long decision that will affect the rest of their lives. I will pray for your family to help you through this difficult time. We all love you very much. Love Holly
Mike,Yes its dark here and i dont mean the weather. Your words made us laugh and touched us,once again your kind words of wisdom have helped. One day at a time One moment at a time. One prayer at a time. mark
praying again tonight and not really sure what to say....we have been lifting you up all day long. Jeff who doesn't blog asked me tonight "any updates"? And I knew he meant you. Please let us all know what you need or how we can help.
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